30 Years Married… and Still in Business
May 14, 2025I'm The Real Jason Duncan, and this is your Beyond the Grind blog—where we help entrepreneurs like you build thriving businesses without sacrificing your freedom. 🚀
What I've learned in my marriage has shaped the way I lead, build, and grow businesses more than any book, course, or mastermind ever could.
The Foundation of Everything
When my wife and I got married, we were just kids—full of dreams.
We didn't have money. We didn't have a plan.
But we had each other and a commitment that said, "No matter what, we're in this together."
That mindset carried into my business life.
Entrepreneurship is full of uncertainty.
There were years we didn't know how we'd make it—times the bank account was low and stress was high.
But the one thing I never had to question was whether my wife believed in me.
That kind of support?
You can't put a price on it. And if you don't have it, you feel it.
Business Will Test Your Priorities
If you're not careful, your business will become your identity.
It will eat your time, drain your energy, and justify itself with phrases like "I'm doing this for my family."
I've told myself that lie before.
But here's the truth:
Your family doesn't need your business to succeed more than they need YOU to show up.
Fully present. Not just financially providing—but emotionally available.
I've learned this the hard way more than once.
And thank God my wife has always been quick to forgive and slow to judge. I've had to repent and reset more times than I care to admit.
But every time I've realigned my priorities—putting our marriage first—my business has actually grown stronger.
Why? Because clarity, peace, and connection at home create the foundation for clear thinking and confident leadership at work.
If You're Building Something That Costs You Everything, It's Not Worth It
I've coached hundreds of entrepreneurs over the years, and here's one of the saddest patterns I see: too many of them are winning in business but losing at home.
And I'm not impressed by that.
I don't care how big your company is, how many employees you have, or what your net worth is—if you're disconnected from your spouse, missing your kids grow up, or living in constant burnout, it's not a win.
That's not entrepreneurship. That's enslavement.
What good is success if the people you love aren't there to enjoy it with you?
Marriage Has Made Me a Better Entrepreneur
Marriage taught me how to listen.
It taught me how to lead with humility.
It taught me that long-term success requires commitment, communication, and a willingness to keep showing up even when it's hard.
Sound familiar?
That's what business requires too.
And the longer I'm married, the more convinced I am that the best entrepreneurs aren't the most talented—they're the most consistent.
They keep showing up. Just like a good spouse does.
If you're married, let me encourage you: don't sacrifice your relationship on the altar of your ambition.
Prioritize what really matters.
Because if you do it right, your business and your marriage can strengthen each other.
And if you're not married? These principles still apply.
Success in any area of life—business, relationships, health—requires intentionality, commitment, and choosing long-term over short-term.
Favor doesn't come from the hustle. It comes from honoring the things that matter most.
Go beyond the grind,
The Real Jason Duncan 🚀